9 Hot Blowjob Secrets to Drive Him Wild with Desire

Guys just love getting head, but a mind blowing blow is a rare sensual treat. Take your technique to the next level with these naughty new moves!

If you asked a guy to make a top five list of his favorite things, most men, if not all, would give blowjobs the number one spot. And for good reason! A mouth is wet and warm, and it's got the added bonus of a tongue that can do a lot of tantalizing moves from flicking to caressing to gently teasing.

Plus, there's also the fact that receiving head means guys get to relax and let the lady do most of the work. What more can a guy ask for when it comes to foreplay?

Being on the giving end of a blowjob may not be half as fun as being on the receiving end, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have pros for the giver as well!

Just think about it, isn't the sight of your guy helplessly writhing in uncontrollable pleasure because of your mouth something you'd want to see at least a couple of times? Doesn't it boost your ego to know that despite the fact that you're the one on your knees, it's you who's still in control?

9 blowjob secrets to drive him mad with lust

A standard blow is great, but there's so much more you can do to spice it up for your guy. If you haven't tried anything new in the bedroom lately, these tips are sure to give you some really good ideas.

#1 Let your hair down. This is a great move and it's super easy to do. Even if you don't know it yet, chances are you've done it before without even realizing it. For this, he should be lying down and you should be off to the side.

All you have to do is let your hair fall down onto and over his balls. As you move your head up and down, the hair will give him a little massage with the lightest touch. This feels amazing for him, almost like the caress of a feather. He'll be totally blissed out.

#2 Things are looking up. This is a great move for when he's either sitting or standing, and you're on your knees in front of him. While you have him in your mouth, all you have to do is look up at him. Doing this will make your eyes look big, and big doe eyes make you look irresistibly young and inexperienced. What he'll see is the contradiction of you giving him head, while also looking sweet and innocent. Plus, eye contact while doing something so sexy is sure to give you both an added surge of lust and pleasure.

#3 Don't stop the party. It doesn't take too long before your jaw starts to get uncomfortable. There's really no other activity where you have to keep your mouth open for that long. Your hands and wrists may also start to feel like you've been milking a cow for hours. When you start to feel uncomfortable, take a quick break and shake it out.

But what too many women do is rest everything all at once. It's more like a general strike than a break. When your jaw is starting to hurt, let your hand pick up the slack. Pull back, close your mouth and let it rest, but keep working him. When a woman just stops everything she's doing, it kills the mood and you may need to start getting him worked up all over again.

#4 Bring along a toy. There's no rule that says your sex toys are only for you. Get one out when you're giving him head to really get him going. It should be something that vibrates, and ideally it should be small. He'll probably be scared if you take out a dildo and want to put it between his legs!

Don't bring it out right away. Get him going a little bit first, and when he's really starting to get into it, about halfway to orgasm, then introduce it. Let him know before though, as sex toys are intimidating to guys in many ways. Surprising him with it will probably not be received well.

Put it right under his balls, and push lightly against the skin where the taint ends and balls begin. His balls and prostate will be stimulated, and even if he's unsure about doing it initially, his fears will quickly melt away. Don't be shocked if he comes a lot harder than usual.

#5 Show him the goods. Most guys like to look at a woman when she's sucking him off. But every guy is different and so is what he wants to see. Once you know what eye candy he likes, give him a peek while you're blowing him.

If he's a boob guy, give him a nice view by using your twins to stimulate the base of his penis. If he's an ass man, show him some ass. 69 comes close to this, but once it's all up in his face, he might not be able to enjoy the view as much. Instead, try kneeling next to his chest, almost 69-like but you'll be a little off to the side. Even if he's not that into butts, this view will drive any guy so wild that he might return the favor by using his hands or even his mouth to stimulate you as well.

#6 Check the oil. This one isn't for everyone, but if you're both into it, a finger in his ass can blow his mind. Men and women both have pleasure points in their ass, and you don't have to be in too deep to find those spots. Unfortunately, due partly to fear, and partly to stories we've all heard where people do it wrong, men and women choose to avoid the added pleasure hidden in there.

While you're already giving him head, lube up a finger with a trimmed nail. Start slowly, rubbing only the outer rim. There's no need to rush or to shove it straight in. Some light caressing will already feel really good for him.

Once he's started to relax, slowly and very gently, push your finger in. He'll need to breathe, and loosen up to let it happen. About two inches in on the top side, you'll feel a small bump. Massage it. This is the prostate and some people call it the male G-spot. Be careful: when he comes, it'll be like nothing he's ever felt before. You'll definitely be raising his standards on orgasms because of this move!

#7 Tainted love. Different men respond to this one in different ways, but it's worth seeing if he likes it. When he's about to come, push somewhat firmly on the perineum, also known as the taint (the area between his anus and scrotum). This will push on his prostate and constrict the flow of his semen as he ejaculates, thus making him feel like he's literally about to explode with pleasure. Be careful of where you aim him, though, as the pressure will make his semen shoot out further than it ever has before!

#8 Squeeze the base. Here's a great tip for when he's having trouble staying completely hard or for when you just want to change things up a bit. With your thumb and one finger, squeeze around the base of his penis. Apply about as much pressure as it would take to pinch your cheek until it almost starts to hurt, but not quite. This works like a cock ring, keeping the blood inside, and the penis hard. Even if he's having no trouble staying hard, the orgasm will feel different this way. It never hurts to try something new.

#9 He came, he saw, he… came. You don't have to let him do it every time, but let him come where he wants to once in a while. You may not understand why he wants to come there, but if he enjoys it and it won't hurt you, just indulge him.

There's a good chance he'll choose your face as his target. You might think it's about domination and humiliation, but just think about it as bedroom play and not something that carries over to your actual relationship. As long as he respects you as a woman out of the bedroom, a minute or two of degradation in bed can add a rush of excitement!

With these tips and tricks, you're sure to put your man in a rollercoaster of intense pleasure. Whenever your guy deserves some good lovin' or whenever you're just in a generous mood, use these sexy tips to make him explode!