Rimming Guide How to Master the Rim Job & Eat Ass like a Real Pro
You may have heard of rimming and think it's as easy as licking an ass cheek. This is what you need to know if you want to give an amazing rim job.
Eating ass used to be one giant taboo. If you ate another person's ass, you were seen as a gross person. Eating ass? Get away from me, you know what goes on down there? Well, people perform oral sex knowing they're probably ingesting urine-that hasn't stopped most of us. But now, a rim job is making its way back on the scene as an essential sex act. You don't give rim jobs? Now that's weird.
Your rim job guide
Now, if you're reading this, you're probably curious about giving it a try. People may have given you their pee, saying you just have to dive right in. Now, they're not wrong, but there are definitely some things to do to make it a more sensual experience for the both of you.
I know it's a rim job, but trust me, you can receive a bad rim job which is traumatic. Follow these tips and you'll have a great rimming experience.
#1 What is a rim job exactly? Rimming is basically a technique called the “tongue twister” which is performed on the anus. What you do is spread the person's cheeks apart with your hands and then, with your tongue, you make circular motions around and on the anus. This is the basic movement. Now, as you get more into it, play around with different motions and pressure.
#2 A clean ass is a happy ass. Now, sometimes we can't always prepare. Maybe you picked someone up from the club, so, of course, no one prepared to be rimmed. But if you can, going to the bathroom and quickly washing your ass doesn't hurt. People who had a traumatizing experience probably encountered a dirty ass.
#3 Explore your own ass first. I'm not saying that you're not capable of receiving a rim job, but, it probably won't come off as big of a shock if you already play with your ass. While masturbating, insert a finger into your ass or rub your anus with your finger. Essentially, you want to become comfortable with anal play.
#4 Don't eat a woman out after rimming. You do not want to mix anal bacteria with the vagina. This leads to infections such as UTIs. So, if you plan to perform a rim job on a woman, do it after eating her out. It's the cleanest and safest way to perform a rim job.
#5 No, shaving your ass isn't necessary. People become insecure with rim jobs because most of us have hair on our butts. But here's the thing, you don't have hair on your anus. The hair doesn't actually affect it. Of course, there may be some hair, however, nothing crazy.
You don't have to shave or wax your butt in order to receive a rim job. Plus, once you have an ingrown hair there, it ain't easy to remove it.
#6 Don't be afraid to use spit. If your mouth is a little dry, don't be afraid to spit on the anus. I mean, you'll be aroused while doing it, so don't be shy to spit on it, rub the anus with your finger and then dive right in. If you want to make it feel more arousing, don't be cheap on the spit.
#7 You can use a dental dam. If you're concerned about contracting an STI, use a dental dam or plastic wrap as a barrier. You can contract an STI while rimming, so, you should know that. When it comes to sex, whether it's penetration, oral sex, or rimming, STIs are contractible.
#8 Doggy style is the easiest. If this is your first time, rim your partner in doggy style. It's a comfortable position for them, but, it also makes the anus easily accessible which is what you want. So, when in doubt, go into doggy style and go wild on their ass.
#9 It doesn't taste bad. Here's the thing, people think rimming tastes like shit… literally. Now, I'm going to destroy this myth for you because the anus doesn't taste like anything. Of course, if they're not clean, there will be a specific smell, but, that shouldn't be a problem.
#10 Have a shower together. To make sure you're both clean, shower together. If you worry about the hygiene factor, make the shower a part of the foreplay. That way, you still arouse each other while taking the extra step in making sure that you're both clean.
#12 Arouse the anus first. I know I said, dive right in, but don't actually dive right in. You need to warm up that area and make your partner relax. So, before using your magical tongue, rub and kiss the area around the anus, slowly making your way to the anus. Then, use your tongue, licking the area around it, and then go for the anus.
Now that you've been given the tips for a tantalizing rim job, it's time you gave it a try. The first time may be a little awkward, but once you get into it, you'll love it.