16 Tricks To Teasing Him Without Revealing Too Much

Naughty texting can be a little bit too much sometimes. I mean, he's not going to buy the cow if you're giving away the milk for free - or whatever that old school saying is. Even if you are intimate when you're physically together, you may not want to get too detailed via text messages or hot photos because, y'know, the internet. Let us not forget the many celebrities who have fallen victim to the cloud leaks. Most people don't even know what the cloud is (I don't!), but apparently it's where all your nudes and texting goes so it can come back and haunt you.

Instead of naughty texting, the low-key version is tease texting. Tease texting is more like, well, being a tease. It's a way to flirt with him and turn him on, but not be too upfront. The best part is that there are so many ways to get him going without sending him a naked selfie. You can entice him by hinting towards the fact that you're naked, or in bed, or just got out of the shower. You can make him excited to see you by telling him you have a surprise for him. Seriously, there are so many ways to turn guys on without the nude selfies.

Ladies, it's time to put your clothes back on and stop texting him scripts to '70s porn. It's time to start tease texting. Below are 16 easy ways you can tease text him right now.

16 Text Him From Bed

Texting a guy from bed is the simplest way to tease text him. While you are not saying anything overtly inappropriate, there is something very hot about texting a guy from your bed. Before bed, you could text him saying, 'Lying in bed and thinking about you.' If that's too obvious, then an 'I'm in bed. Goodnight,' will even do the trick. You could also tell him you're watching a TV show in bed. It'll make him long for a Netflix-binge with you in that very bed.

The bed brings thoughts of naughtiness to the mind, even if you don't say anything hot at all. Plus, he totally doesn't have to know that you have a face mask on and your retainer in. There is no sexy photo or sexy talk required. Just simply tell him your location and let his mind do the rest of the work.

15 Tell Him You Had A Dream About Him

This is another bedroom trick, because anything involving sleep or the bedroom is a great way to tease text him. This type of text can be sent in the morning. If you usually text him a good morning text, you could follow it up with a text saying you had a dream about him. You don't even really need to have a dream about him, you could totally lie about that part. Plus, the details of the dream aren't as important as the fact that you're dreaming about him. Letting him know that he's on your mind while you're fast asleep is very hot without being too forward.

If he asks what the dream was about, you can say something coy like 'Use your imagination' or 'I'm too embarrassed to say'. Either of those options will allow him to think of what the dream may have been like. The imagination is key in tease texting.

14 Tell Him He's Flirting With You

One of the best ways to flirt with someone is to accuse them of flirting with you. It's reverse psychology in a way. If he is flirting with you via text, calling him out on it is a perfect way to be cool, sexy and break the tension. If he compliments your eyes via text message, you could text him back saying something like, 'Excuse me. Are you coming on to me?' He'll probably say something witty back. Back and forth banter is so very sexy. Have you ever seen a movie from the '40s or '50s? There was never any nudity, but the banter was hotter than anything. Bringing that witty type of dialogue to a relationship can kick things up a notch. Plus, if he is coming on to you, you might as well point it out. Flirting doesn't have to be so darn complicated. We can all be upfront about flirting.

13 Confess To Something Kinky

Instead of making the tease texting all about the two of you, feel free to talk about other sexual experiences. If it's early in a relationship, there really shouldn't be too much jealousy about experiences you've had with other people. In reality, there should never be jealousy about experiences you've had before a relationship. I mean, you didn't even know each other yet, right? Everyone dates around before they find the one.

Anyways, if the conversation shifts towards something you have done before, don't be afraid to admit that. You've had a three-way? Tell him! You've hooked up in a crazy location? Tell him! Letting him know that you've been adventurous in the past will make him excited about the possibility of you being adventurous with him. And, really, tease texting is all about getting him excited.

12 Give Him A Nickname

Nicknames are such an innocent, easy way to flirt with someone. Remember when Logan would call Rory 'Ace' on Gilmore Girls? How about when Sawyer would call Kate 'Freckles' on Lost? It doesn't seem like anything too sexual, but calling someone by a nickname creates an intimacy between the two of you. There's a special name that you call him and that's between the two of you. It's very sexy, without being too sexy.

This is different than a pet name. Calling him babe, dear, darling, sugar or anything of that nature is sweet, but it's less personal. Everyone uses pet names. Nicknames are tailored to that specific person. If he once got too drunk off tequila, even a nickname like Mr. Tequila could do the trick. Alright, that example isn't great, but you get it. Nicknames = sexy.

11 Low-Key Role Play

Role play is an extremely sexy bedroom practice, but it doesn't have to be strictly a bedroom practice. Yes, playing a nurse and a patient, a flight attendant and a pilot, or an attorney and a client are all very hot in the bedroom. However, role play can take place on a smaller scale, outside of the bedroom.

If he's talking about something in his life, you can easily insert yourself through role play. For example, if he's a dentist, you could say something about being his patient and the fact that you don't floss. If he's a personal trainer, you could ask how hard he'd be on you. You get it. It's much more PG than a full-on role play situation, but it's definitely up that alley. And, if you can get creative through text messages, he'll be wondering how creative you can get in the actual bedroom.

10 Be Competitive

All that crazy testosterone makes men very competitive. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, tapping into their competitive side can be very sexy. Engaging with him in a competitive way will make him see you as an equal, instead of a delicate lady. This competitive conversation can be talking about out-drinking him, talking about knowing more The Walking Dead trivia, or talking about being able to out-run him. Whatever the case, creating a competition between the two of you will engage his competitive side and get him going.

The important thing about this is to just suggest being competitive. You don't even actually have to compete. Rather the idea of competing will get him going.

9 Tell Him He Looks Like A Famous Person

The best compliment to get is being told you look like a hot famous person, but within reason. If you have blonde hair and blue eyes, being told you look like Megan Fox won't be all that believable. However, if a guy tells you look like Margot Robbie or Cameron Diaz, that's much more believable.

If you want to give a guy the best compliment, tell him he looks like a hot famous person, but don't just pull a random name out of thin air. If he doesn't look anything like Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, or Ryan Gosling, then don't tell him he looks like them. However, if he has similar features to Ryan Gosling, let the man know! There is nothing better than being told you look like, the heartthrob of all heartthrobs, Ryan Gosling. This way, you can flirty text him any time you ever see a Ryan Gosling interview, movie or poster. It creates a cute way to tease test him over and over again.

8 Build The Anticipation

The role of sexting or tease texting is to build the anticipation. You want to get him excited to see you again. You can accomplish this without giving too much away. In fact, simply texting him and telling him that you can't wait to see him again will get him excited to see you. If you have plans for Friday night, texting him and telling him that you're counting the hours until Friday night will, again, get him excited. You can also mention a specific event. If you plan on going to a concert together on your Friday night date, texting him to tell him that you're so excited for the concert will build the anticipation while keeping it cool. You're not saying you're excited to see him per se, but rather this concert. This is a coy way to build the anticipation.

Just remember that you don't always have to be sexual in order to get him excited.

7 Send Him Pictures When You're Out

Pictures of you having fun > pictures of you half-dressed.

Guys may ask for some naked selfies, but those aren't the sexiest pictures of you. Let's be honest, the naked selfies are usually awkward and poorly done. You're sucking it in and sticking it out. The lighting sucks. You might even be in the bathroom so the background will be a funky shower curtain. Plus, naked selfies are in the cloud (whatever that means) and could be potentially leaked. You don't want to be the next Jennifer Lawrence, not that any of us are as famous as J. Law, but y'know.

Instead, if you're glammed up and having a fun night out with your girlfriends, those are the pictures to send. You'll look hot and you'll be having fun. He'll be reminded that you have a fun life outside of hanging out with him. He'll also know that you don't sit at home taking naked selfies for him.

6 Be MIA

One of the easiest ways to tease text a guy is to not text him at all. Yes, you read that right. Don't text him at all. Taking a little time apart will make him miss you and what's better than that?

Of course, you don't have to tell him that you purposely didn't text him for a bit. That will ruin the allure. Instead, take a few hours to answer one of his texts and explain that you were busy at work or out with friends. Having a full and active life outside of a relationship is sexy as hell. If you leave him hanging, he'll be wondering what you're doing instead of texting him back. It will make him crave your attention, and there is literally nothing in the world that is better than that.

5 Tell Him A Song Reminds You Of Him

There is something so very sensual about telling someone that a song reminds you of them. Since it is connected with a sensory experience, it calls attention to the body. You hear something and it reminds you of him - what's sexier than that? This is also an amazing way to express your feelings to him without actually having to say your feelings. It's a little cheat. You can tell him a romantic song reminds you of him and essentially express that have you have strong romantic feelings for him. You could tell him a steamy song reminds you of him and express the fact that you're having a strong physical attraction to him. Just be reminded to pick your song wisely. Telling him that Taylor Swift's “Bad Blood” reminds you of him could be a bad idea.

Furthermore, you could also say a TV show or film reminds you of him. Whatever it is, it's a way of telling him that you think about him during your day.

4 Talk About NOT Getting It On

Instead of talking about the sex you'll be having, you can talk about how much sex you won't be having. Yes, it sounds weird but stay with us here. If you're in a sexual relationship, you could tell him that you're super excited to not have sex on Friday with a winky face. Talking about all the sex you won't be having and how great all of the non-sex will be is a way of talking about sex but not doing it directly.

You can also use this trick to talk about a moment went you actually can't have sex. Say you have plans to go to a restaurant - you could text him about the fact that you probably can't have sex at the restaurant. It will make sitting through that dinner all that much hotter, because he'll know that you're wanting to tear his clothes off.

Just remember, sometimes talking about not doing something is a great way to actually talk about doing it.

3 Tell Him You Have A Surprise For Him

Like we pointed out earlier, tease texting is all about building the anticipation for the next time you'll see each other. A great way to build his excitement is to tell him that you have a surprise for him. He'll be excited to see you and get his surprise, whatever it may be. He'll also be wondering what the surprise is. It will keep him guessing until the next time he sees you. It will keep you on his mind until the next time he sees you.

The surprise can be big or small. The surprise can be sexy or completely not sexy. You could have some lingerie lined up for a special night. Or you simply could have bought him a small gift. The actual surprise really doesn't matter all that much. What matters is his excitement for the surprise.

2 Text Him After You Shower

What is hotter than just being out of the shower? You're dripping wet… and naked. Of course, it's actually not that sexy in theory. Your hair may be a mess. Hell, you may have worn a shower cap to keep your blowout dry - and shower caps are certainly not a sexy look. You could also have mascara dripping down your face. Oh, and your blemishes could be super red from washing your face. Yeah, in reality, just stepping out of the shower isn't hot. However tease texting is more about his imagination than reality. If you text him when you just get out of the shower, he'll imagine that you are looking hot, naked and wet.

A 'just got out of the shower' text is a simple text that isn't specifically sexual, but it will get his mind working.

1 Make Fun Of Him

There is nothing sexier than laughing with someone you like. That is a basic fact of life. I mean, just think of all the times you've been 100% more attracted to a guy because he's funny. Laughing is sexy. Making fun of him is a foolproof way to make him laugh and to connect to him. Of course, you can't be too mean. We don't want you to make him cry or anything, but teasing him is where it's at. Making fun of the way he says a certain word or his favorite t-shirt is an easy way to tease text him. It's also a perfect way to break the tension. Sometimes, things can feel so intense when you're talking to a guy you're into. It can feel intense for him too. Making fun of him will help him relax, and he'll totally love you for that.

While there is a time and a place for sexting, tease texting is where it is at, ladies.