15 Things Women Don't Realize About Men

We all know men and women are different. Of course they are different physically, but they are also different emotionally and mentally. Often in films, we hear all about how men simply do not understand women, just can't seem to figure them out! But the truth is that there are a lot of things women don't realize about men as well!

The differences between men and women have been very pronounced over the years and stereotypes have formed because of it. Holding a stereotype over a man is one of the worst things you can do because it denies him the chance to be himself. When you find the man of your dreams, you can only hope he will be everything you want and more. If you are limiting him to the stereotypes that society has created, he will likely fall short! Women need to realize that there are a lot of things about men that they don't know or comprehend. More understanding needs to be had so that relationships can be stronger.

Instead of listening to what society tells us, be sure to take a look at your man with open and accepting eyes. There are things you may not understand about him and jumping to conclusions can hurt your guy. Just as you wouldn't want him classifying you under all the female stereotypes, do the same for him. Give him a blank slate to understand him better and you may be surprised at what you find!

Check out these 15 things women don't realize about men!

15 Men Cry

One of the most stereotypical things that women still believe about men is that they don't cry. Sure, little boys will cry and only a deeply anguished man will cry in a film, but women sometimes still believe that men don't cry. Time to adjust your thinking because they sure do! Movies portray men as rock-hard, strong people who have no emotional outbursts and only cry when it is absolutely necessary. How many times has a man ran after his wife's killer in films rather than take a moment to cry? Some men will be very emotional and can take things very personally. Be sensitive to your guy because he has emotions just like you. It is also important that if your guy does cry that you comfort him and not make fun of him. He may not show his tears as often as you, but know that those feelings are still in there!

14 Cuddle time 

Men like to cuddle. It is often assumed that because they are rough and tough, they don't like to get under a blanket and snuggle up next to you. The truth is that cuddling is something that is built into us! As children, we ran to our parents for love and physical affection and would cuddle to feel that love. We never seem to outgrow it, and that includes men! The other thing women think is that men are using cuddling to get to other things. That may be the case sometimes, but just because he snuggles up with you doesn't mean he is trying to get straight to the deed every time! Don't let the stereotype of men wanting physical satisfaction cloud your judgement. Men love to cuddle, and sometimes that's all there is to it! Enjoy your cuddles when they are offered to you because sometimes those can be the most enjoyable moments.

13 Playing Hard to Get Gets Old

When trying to get the guy, sometimes women use the tactic of playing hard to get. They evade him flirtatiously, get guys to ask them out but then remember they are busy, or any other schemes to make them chase them. Playing hard to get can be fun for both sides, but it is important to know when to stop. There has to be a point when he finally “gets” you and the scheming stops. Women sometimes don't realize that men can enjoy playing hard to get at the beginning, but most times it can just be annoying and exhausting if it goes on too long. Think of the amount of energy he is using to try and get you. You are draining him emotionally (being turned down all the time hits his ego), physically (running after you), and mentally (his brain hurts from trying to figure you out). Know when playing hard to get is good and when it is time to give him a break!

12 When We Try To Make Them Jealous 

One method that has been used to get and keep a guy is to make him jealous. You let him know you are mad at him or are on high demand by flirting with someone else. You think it is shameless flirting, totally safe, but what you don't realize is that using jealousy to get the guy is not a good approach. What women don't realize about men is that they don't like it when you try to make them jealous. Many women think that it makes them look hotter by letting their guys know that others want them, but the truth is that it isn't hot -- its rude! Would you want your man flirting with someone just to show you how good you have got it? No! Trying to make a guy jealous is just making him feel used, under-appreciated, and hurt. Don't ruin your relationship by trying to make him jealous. Women don't realize just how much guys hate it.

11 Problem Solving Skills 

It happens all the time. You come home from an awful day at work and you begin to tell your man all about your problems. Once you are finished, he begins to offer solutions by saying things like, “Well maybe you should do this instead… ” or “Is it really her fault?” Your blood begins to boil because you can't understand why he can't just listen! Something most women don't realize is that men have a tendency to offer solutions to fix the problem because that is just how they are built. They don't understand that we just want to rant and have them feel sorry for us. Men are problem-solvers; they want to help you and that means they will try to fix your problem. Don't freak out at him the next time he offers a solution, but instead just kindly ask him to listen and sympathize with you and not offer an answer.

10 Multitasking

It is the stereotypical joke that men can't multitask, but the reality is that this is the truth! It doesn't mean that men can't run and talk at the same time. It just means that they are not able to jump from topic to topic like women can. Women's thoughts can move a mile a minute; they will be thinking of making dinner, suddenly remembering that funny thing on TV last night, then remembering that you didn't put your garbage bin outside. Men can multitask, but when it comes to conversations, they think in topics. They don't have the same ability to jump from one idea to the next like women do. They like to compartmentalize their thinking and move carefully from one topic to the next. Think of it as if men have a bunch of rooms in their minds and can only be in one room at a time!

9 Self-Conscious

Men may act like they don't care about things. They may act like nothing can hurt them and that sticks and stones may break their bones but words will never hurt them. The truth is that guys can be self-conscious too. He has a zit on his forehead and deep down he is dying of embarrassment, but on the outside he is making a joke of it. Don't be the one falling into the trap of thinking that he doesn't care and making fun of him, however harmless it may be. Men may put up barriers using different methods (humor, avoidance, etc.) to deal with their self-consciousness. Encourage your man and let him know that even though he is feeling like he looks fat, he is appreciated 100% by you! Be the girl who sees past his defenses and understands him truly. Don't be one of those women who doesn't realize that men can be self-conscious too!

8 Do Guys Seek Attention Too? 

Women seem to believe that they are the only ones who should get the majority of the attention in a relationship. They want to be stared at, fretted over, and have all of the attention to themselves. The truth is that men actually like attention too! Sure, they may be all tough on the outside, but they are human and still like to be told they look good and have your undivided attention once in awhile. Have you ever heard of a man-cold? This is a great example of just how much men love attention. Something about them being sick, amplifies their need for attention and extra love and coddling. Give your guy the attention and love he needs and take care of him when he is sick and give him your full attention more often. It is human nature, not just women-nature, to like the feeling of being the center of attention!

7 What They Are Thinking?

Women love to romanticize! Sometimes you may imagine that your man sits at work staring at your picture just wondering when he will get to gaze into your eyes next. When you are watching that movie and the love scene comes on, he MUST be thinking of you. So you decide to ask him what he is thinking about and his reply is “nothing.” Take a deep breath because what most women don't realize about men is that they sometimes are honestly not thinking about anything. It is similar to the ability of multitasking. Women can think of a new thing every second, whereas men are able to think about one thing at a time. Men are focused on the task or item in front of them and may just let their thoughts stop. So the next time you ask him what he is thinking about, it might really be nothing!

6 Compliments

Everyone loves to be complimented! There is nothing better than knowing someone else likes what you are doing and how you look. It makes us feel appreciated, loved, and beautiful. Women love compliments and will go out of their way to get one (do their hair really nice, buy new clothes, or do their makeup differently). What women don't realize is that men like compliments as well. It is often forgotten that being appreciated is a human desire, and men fall into that category! Guys shouldn't be the only ones to be doing the complimenting. They should also be receiving compliments! Let your guy know that his hair looks sexy today, that his arms look buff in that shirt, or that he is always so loyal and kind. Tell him what you like about him by complimenting him and you may be surprised to find your relationship getting stronger! Affection through words is a great way to boost someone's morale!

5 True Beauty

Makeup and hair products are often advertised as a means to looking better to catch the man of your dreams. The more dolled up you are, the more attracted he will be to you, but the truth is that most men prefer true beauty. They would rather you forget the makeup, put on some comfortable casual clothes and just hang about with them. Many men have even confessed that they will find you hottest when you are lazing about in your sweatpants. There is something attractive about being natural and just being YOU that draws him to you. This doesn't mean you have to throw all of your expensive makeup products out the window. After all, putting a little effort in when you see him is never a bad thing. Just know that if you are relying on makeup and other beauty products to attract him, you might be trying a bit too hard!

4 Love It When You Laugh

Does your guy try to fit a joke in at every moment he can find? Is he constantly making goofy faces to try and make you laugh? Instead of rolling your eyes at him and walking away, laugh at him! Men love to know that you think they are funny. It is one of the highest compliments a guy can receive from you! Think back to grade school when boys would tease you and bug you trying to get your attention. It's because they wanted to make you laugh! When you laugh at their jokes (no matter how stupid they may be), you are giving them validation, affection, and confirmation in who they are. Just be sure that you are laughing with him and not at him, as you will recall that men can be self-conscious. If he is able to make you genuinely laugh, make sure he knows it and feels your love!

3 They Can Like Girly Things

Many women believe that men like to do testosterone-driven guy-things and avoid anything girly like the plague. Most men will avoid those things to ensure they do not get teased, but the truth is they do like girly things! Many guys will hide their enjoyment in a chick-flick, a female singer, or a nice manicure. They hide their girly likes to ensure they appear tough and man-like on the outside. Don't be the person from whom he has to hide that side of himself and realize that men can like girly things too! There is nothing wrong with him sitting down and wanting to power through a season of Gilmore Girls with you! If anything, you should be ecstatic that you can share those things with him as well! Sing out loud to those Taylor Swift songs and go get monthly manicures together! Liking girly things is something most women don't realize about men.

2 Needing Space

Because women are a and have thoughts that race around their heads, they sometimes forget that men aren't on the same page as them. They expect their man to know what they are thinking and do what is expected of him. What women don't realize about men is that they CAN'T read their minds. Men are often left wondering what you want and seem to be confused about what you want them to do. One of the easiest ways to get around this is to take a chill pill and just tell them! The more you tell him what you want, the more he will be able to guess what you want in the future. Don't beat around the bush and leave him confused and guessing. Give him the answer so he can get on the same page as you. This will make your relationship much better and your man will be happier actually knowing what you are thinking!